A 12 - week class for determined souls ready

to create a new life for themselves after divorce.

doingDivorce™ School

If you’re dealing with heartache, you’re in the right place - get support, acceptance, and an empowering perspective.

Breaking up is unbelievably hard. Separations filled with frustration and fear can be really tough. The upset and anger overwhelming.

I know that right now

  • You want to remove the stigma of shame, step back out into the world feeling confident and be able to create the kind of life you know is yours. 
  • You want to have a peaceful home, a loving relationship, and be granted dignity and respect.

  • More than anything you want the fight in the past as you move on with your future.

As a married and divorced young adult, and married and divorced mother myself, I get it, I honestly do.

  • Your fears and worries start the moment you open your eyes and start to check messages on your phone.
  • You look around for advice but no one understands what you’re going through.
  • You're incredibly frustrated because you feel powerless and alone.
  • You're overwhelmed, taken off-guard by the emotions and don't know how to handle the anger.
  • You look in the mirror and don't recognize who you've had to become.

If this sounds like the story of your heartache, you’re in the right place.

I was once right there with you. 

I remember this pain. It’s often the before story of every divorcé I've worked with. I know...

  • you’ve spent years trying to keep your family together and believe in your heart that there’s more to life than struggle. 
  • you’ve done whatever it took to keep them happy with you, in bed whether you wanted sex or not. (Sometimes not but you did it anyway.
  • you’ve done whatever it took to keep them happy in your home, with the kids whether you enjoyed cooking or worked a full-time job, and whether or not they wanted kids to begin with. 

You've done it all!

The hard part is… 

after trying whatever you could to keep them happy...

if you’re not living in a happy relationship, it can feel like being stuck.

Possibly even being a victim or being overrun by anger.

(No wonder you’re feeling a bit lost and confused!) 

There has to be a better way!

I'm Laura and I work with those going through or recovering from the experience of divorce. People like you, who want to put the pain in the past, stop the overwhelm and fear, and have a great life, fun relationships, and a peaceful home.

Going from being married to being happily single again isn’t easy...

despite the number of couples going through divorce and whether or not you were the one who wanted out of your marriage. The truth is there are days it sucks. (I do curse!) OK, it really hurts and seems incredibly unfair!

You see, it wasn’t until I was on my knees in my attorney’s office that I realized, I had to change how I was approaching this entire experience. 

It was time to take back my life and to figure out how to make my future one I wanted to live.  

Just imagine...

• Feeling the anger or resentments without reacting and making mistakes

• Negotiating all your relationships without needing others to choose sides (especially your kids) 

• Knowing you can manage the professionals instead of being an emotional wreck

• Developing new skills so you never go through this kind of pain again 

• Trusting your gut 

• Softening your heart so one day if you want, a new lover can help you write a new love story.

Are you ready to find out what's missing?

And just like that, I began truly focusing on my healing. 

There was something I had to figure out and I suspect you’ve been feeling it too. Despite your best DIY intentions have you found yourself more confused, lost and isolated in your heartache, filled with anger or fear?

Have you tried to build your case against them and are dealing with guilt and resentments? 

Are you ready to start to heal? To start to feel the optimism and hope that’s been gone for awhile…

Here’s the thing: you only get these kinds of results when you start to commit to yourself in a divorce as much as or more than you committed to your marriage.

I know a lot about divorce...

That’s why I created doingDivorce™ School:

A 12 - week class for determined souls ready to create a new life for themselves, their loved ones, and a happier future.

During this 3-month group mentoring class you'll learn how to...

develop down-to-earth faith in yourself and your abilities

make loads of hope for the kind of future you want even when you’ve forgotten how

create steadfast courage to make it happen even when you’re unsure.

release the pain of your divorce to allow grace and gratitude to permeate your thoughts and actions.

As a group, we'll hold each other accountable as you take steps to create the future, happily independent you.

Here's what's included in your 12-week doingDivorce™ School:

12 two-hour classes over 3-months throughout the year.

It takes real time and consistent mentoring to shift from a story of your divorce that no longer works to a more empowering understanding that helps you get on with it. 

Weekly Classes Addressing common divorce issues. 

Let’s be real, divorce affects all parts of our lives and gives us new things to master, so each week we'll discuss a new subject and answer questions specific to:

  • how to understand what’s really going on
  • ways to manage your emotions 
  • best practices for communicating with your ex 
  • you’re in charge: how to deal with the professionals. 
  • When should I date - during and after divorce? 
  • getting real about intimacy
  • how to manage friends and family
  • single parenting skills
  • post-divorce thinking and emotions
  • what’s needed to overcome financial fears 
  • forgiveness 
  • how to create courage and independence

Live Classes taught by me, with personal coaching addressing your common concerns. 

I'll be right there with you to help guide and inspire you - I've been where you are and understand what you're going through!

A community of supportive individuals ready and willing to create a happy and healthy future. 

You need a new group of like-minded people who understand where you're at and who’ll have your back.

Classes recorded and made available to all class participants. 

I get it – life happens! Sometimes you can't make a live class. We'll have a private Slack thread for communication and questions, and all classes will be recorded so if you can't make a class, you'll have the information available when you're able to listen.

set up a call with laura now to get started...

doingDivorce™ School will teach you how to:

• manage your emotions so you can enjoy your     day, your friendships, your work and your 

parenting (even while negotiating your settlement)

• forgive yourself for the person you had to be

• find your way back to your confident, engaging self

• release your children to their own experience

• face future decisions like dating and relationships with hope and optimism

• make your future safe and secure

• open your heart to healthy relationships

doingDivorce™ School was created for you.

For those who recognize that to get through this experience and be at their best, they need to understand and change what's really going on.

At the heart of doingDivorce™ School is the desire to empower you with the confidence you need to think through your divorce and feel happy and secure.

You probably feel a bit wiped out and fearful right now - you may have even made the conscious decision to pull in and hide from other people. But here's the thing:

The simplest way to achieve the life you desire is to understand the difference between how you're dealing with things now and how you could deal with things better.

doingDivorce™ School is a personal mentorship program designed specifically for the unique challenges a divorcé faces.

You won't have to waste time explaining how complicated (and upsetting) your divorce is because I get it. I understand the challenges you face as you start to create your own life and the fears that dominate your thoughts and feelings.

No matter what's going on during your separation and divorce, your life will continue and you're the only one who gets to create and live it.

When the overwhelm stops, your home will become more peaceful. You’ll know you can get through this and you’ll step out into the world with more confidence. With doingDivorce™ School, I'll show you how to create the life you want.

- GC

“After my divorce was finalized, and after years of undergoing extensive personal development work, I was no closer to the healthy, new relationship I wanted. But working with Laura moved me out of grief and depression, and into positive action. Laura is simply the best.” 

"After my breakup, I was weak and lost. I tried to see a therapist, but her solution was ‘if you feel down, take these pills’. I wanted another solution. Laura helped me through the worst times of my life, because she understood exactly what I was going through.”

- CW

“I can’t remember a time in my life when I felt more alone. The emotional resilience I needed to start anew, after being married for over twenty years, was fortified by Laura’s compassionate and practical professional assistance.”

- GK

Wondering how my clients feel and what they have to say?

- GS

I've designed this school so you can get access to all the mentorship, guidance, and support without having to make any other high-ticket investments.

With doingDivorce™ School...

  • you won't need to invest thousands in therapy or waste money going over and over your divorce story with your attorney.  
  • you won't need to deal with frustrating advice and misunderstandings from your friends and family.
  • you won't have to navigate the time-consuming and expensive mistakes that go along with figuring out how to deal with your divorce on your own, just simply use a help from online divorce service

All you need to do is to show up, be willing to implement what I teach you and you'll start to feel results right away.

"I've never had a female believe in me, think I'm worth basically anything, and accept me for me. You have really changed my life...and in turn D and S's. Thank you so very much for believing in me!!!"

- EC

"You have absolutely clarified what I would like to get out of the coaching sessions. In fact, since speaking to you, I already feel a shift in my perspective on things.”

- CC

"I just wanted to drop you a note to say how much I enjoyed yesterday's mentor coaching session. Thank you for building so much value through this process."

- JG

To guarantee that I provide the level of high-touch support required to help you create lasting change in your experience of divorce, I work with a limited number of students at any one time.

• The only prep work is a short survey I ask you to complete so I have a comprehensive idea of what needs I can help you fill.

• In order to feel connected to the class, you’ll begin to receive my daily better divorce inspiration, and be put on my monthly newsletter email list. (You may get off any or all at any time.)

• 2 days before the course begins, I’ll send you access information to our private, closed Slack Channel so you can begin to know your classmates!

• Every week I will send you the Zoom link for our class the day before the session. 

• Each class recording will be available for 14 days following.

How This Works:

If you’d like to know more about doingDivorce™ School,

click the button below to learn more. The next step is for us to get on the phone and see if this is a fit for you.

The only difference between those who can handle the changes and those who can't is understanding this modern-day rite of passage. 

Don't bring the pain of your divorce into your future...

The fine print: With an intimate class, if we lose even one participant, it will be felt by all. However, if you find that after doing the homework for 4 weeks and you're still not happy with the mentorship (you must turn in your assignments to me to show a good faith effort), I will give you back your first - month’s investment.

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